人妻日志：最幸福的事

遇见你

是我最幸福的事

感谢你的爱

我用下半辈子

爱回你

报答你

love

Jaceywongliching

特别想的事

今天

特别想一个人走走逛逛

特别想不说话

特别想吃意大利面

特别想浪费钱买一大堆零食

特别想写部落格

就像以前在英国

遇到不开心的事情时

会想做的事

好在回到夫家

公公婆婆百般疼爱

也有先生陪着我

他的拥抱

永远是我的定心丸

我好想我爸妈

love

Jaceywongliching

因为值得

那天先生问我：

你怎么在楼下待到11点啊

你在做什么呢？

我说：

我在写部落格啊

先生问：

欸，怎么又会开始写部落格了呢？

害怕改变

很多人不明白

我的娘家和夫家的距离

最多也不过那三分钟

可是怎么每次我离开娘家的时候

总是那么情绪化

婚后- 第二天

我的婚礼

几乎所有的好友都来当我的伴娘

来自葡萄牙的 Vanessa

中国的 Linda 和 CJ

还有在马来西亚各地工作的死党们

都聚在了一起

这两天被好友包围着

我才发觉

Missing England

I miss England

every now and then

every city that I had been

and every single corner that I had passed through.

There were times

when I couldnt bear the weather

but now

I really miss it.

Every time when I think of the days in England

It reminds me how much I have changed.

I could still taste the sweet and bitterness

of all the memories I had in England

like it was happened yesterday.

Can never get tired of missing that country

I will never stop missing that country either.

Until the day I am back in England again

Perhaps with the love of my life

Though so many things had been changed since then.

love,

jaceywongliching

爱 请及时

就算说着要好好相爱一辈子

但口中的一辈子

究竟会是多长  究竟会是多短

口中的未来会是怎么样

没有人知道

我唯一知道的是

心魔

后来你会发现

其实那些所谓的不安

不是别人给你造成的

而真正的魔鬼

在你心里

love jaceywongliching xxx

是人吗？

因为我们比畜生和草木

多了那份最基本的

责任感

价值观

道德观念

思考能力

行动力

表达能力

有感情懂感恩

等等。。。

所以我们成人类

当古人说：你连畜生都不如！

表面上是在责骂别人

但其实这句话对于某些人

把他跟畜生相比

都太抬举了

畜生为了保护孩子会发挥母性

为了生存懂得如何觅食

植物都知道要活就得往阳光的方向成长

收取了二氧化碳还会制造氧气回馈人类

而当一个人

对人生没有什么价值观

做事之前不懂得先思考

对自己的生活没有责任感

对生活的大小事不懂的付诸行动

对别人的付出当作理所当然

不知何为廉耻  不懂感恩

那还算是个人吗？

或许是

但更多的可能称之－－ 废人

你可以说

我有些太过严厉

我看事太过认真

但对自己的人生

本来就得认真

因为在世界上的某个角落

有着无数的人

就缺一口白米

生长在恶劣环境

而受苦  而死亡

而那些珍贵的白米

优质的生活环境

都浪费在了那些

好吃懒做

不懂得为自己生活负责的人身上

人生当然可以玩乐  可以放松 

但请在急着享受之前

先学会做一个基本的 <人>

才去学别人怎么享受人生

[给当今社会的草莓族的信息］

love jaceywongliching xxx

一切都是最好的安排

每次大家问起： 你当初怎么会选择念法律这一系，我不是不回答，就是随便回答。

因为我从小的志愿不是当律师，而是老师。

常常我在想，其实当初到底是我自己选择了念法律系，还是法律系选择了我。

而从我大学选修的科系中，不难看的出来，其实当初做选择的时候，我并没有抱着坚定的心踏上法律这条路，因为我在修法律系的同时，给我自己留了一条商业管理的后路。

就像当初，我不确定自己其实是适合开放的美国，还是保守的英国一样。

一路走来，我总觉得看似命运中，一直都是我在做选择；

但现在想想，我强烈怀疑，其实都是命运在帮我做选择。

All you need is Love

I feel obliged,

When we celebrate Chinese New Year,

When we were having halal food altogether,

When we all say 'Gong Xi Fa Chai' to each other,

When it was other races who performed the traditional lion dance,

When we wear red clothes and receiving red envelops,

Regardless of our skin colour, our races, our religion, our believes, our first language.

Frankly, I wasn't having much feeling towards such a scene before.

Yet the more I travelled among countries, the more I found it amazing and invaluable.

We are and we form part of the community, we live in one soil, one society.

Hence we are and will always be a big family, who all live in such a beautiful town.

With love, our skin colour is merely a matter of shades, 

With love, we respects each others believe and religion,

With love, we could still understand each other without speaking the same language,

Be grateful. Be united.
Love. And you'll sure be loved.
The more you give. The more you receive.

Love Jaceywongliching.
xxx

Another Chapter

I think I've had enough holiday.

I am just having too much time to revise my memories build in the past six years.

The street, the campus, the food, the ups and downs, the accommodation, the fear, the achievements, the people, the weather, the building… endlessly.

Casper once told me that: what happened before was a past and one should always look at what's waiting for us ahead. I looked at him admiringly, wondering how he could deal with memories with ease, cause that's something very hard for me to work on. 

This is why I really wish that I could start working as soon as possible.

So to myself busy,

way too busy to think about the past or even live in the past.

In this very new journey, I swear I am going to keep my past in a very very special place in my heart,

and move on with life,

to the very next stage,

to the stage that I've been longing since ages ago.

I've passed through so many hurdles and have come so far.

Now, its time for me to make it further.

A toast, for that The destination has come.

love,
jaceywongliching xx